Back with the series; What I learned, today I will speak of London that we received from the moment that people know we’re trying to get pregnant, even when we have children. I selected the “classics”, those that you’ve ever heard. Many of them happen to me. But some I see that happen and that annoy a lot of people. I tried to merge the subjects, some things are funnier, other bother and are not as nice as well. So this is another post that I’m going to split into parts.
I confess that I’ve played these “pearls” to some friends when I wasn’t thinking about getting pregnant and even have a notion of this maternity pants from themeparktour.
But we’ve learned to be much more careful after experiencing a situation. Many times what the person speaks to us may seem a help, but sometimes gets in the way and depending on the emotional state, until it hurts.
So come on!
What I learned:
-To conceive has nothing to do with change.
I can’t tell you how many times some people told me; “Don’t worry you get pregnant“! Now can somebody tell me what woman want to be mother can change when you start planning your son? And piped or easygoing, you will get pregnant when the time is right. I say this because I spent months pregnant and tap tap!
–You will hear a thousand times; “Prepare to never sleep”.
Especially at the end of pregnancy who’ve never heard of; “sleep now, because later you will see how”! All right, everybody grows listening to this. But we do not need to create a monster. Yes, have children who spend years waking up a thousand times per night and not let their parents sleep. But in the vast majority after entering into a routine, the children will sleep all night Yes. It is true that a good night’s sleep will never be the same. But you go back to sleep better, just be patient. And it all depends on the personality of the baby. I was desperate to not sleep more when I was pregnant with Bruna. And with 4 months she slept 12 hours a night. Already Manu I expected it, and it took much longer to sleep 8 hours it was. But take it easy, take it one day at a time, each baby is one way.
-That in pregnancy you will cross every day people will pretty much control his movements. Do you have any lights? uses jump? Take Coke zero? Drink coffee? Eat Japanese food? I knew it hurt??
It always annoyed me too. No pregnant is crazy or irresponsible to put at risk the health of your baby. You have to have common sense, do everything in moderation. I didn’t not take Coke zero and coffee, I took much less taking, and respected the amount that my doctor guaranteed to have no risk. As I took a glass of wine, I did lights after the 3rd month. Anyway. There are doctors more Liberals and the more radical, and there are also Mothers more neurotic mothers and desencanadas. The important thing is to respect the choices of each. And q in doubt, always ask your doctor, not your friends.
–Inevitably will ask you: you’re going to have natural childbirth?
And this is the typical question that we must answer. Of course every woman wanted a natural childbirth, much better for her to recover…. But this is not always possible. And discuss this choice is something that is unfounded and is among the tops that I take. Then comes breastfeeding!
-That any sign of swelling or extra pounds you will hear: it’s already with little pregnant huh!
The one little pregnant also irritated me in the extreme. Because as much the face bloated and I felt horrible, always had hope that someone would praise me or find me beautiful (hehehehehe!). But that phrase always comes when someone wants something, he saw that you’re different, you gained weight and think “face” of pregnant is a compliment. Has the situation still praising the your belly. This happened to me a lot. The people I was looking at my face, then looked at my belly and Vineyard: Our your belly is beautiful,. Hi?!
-The super tip of breastfeeding is the lunch!
You are passing the luffa operculata in the breast? Enjoy and take Sun, helps a lot!!! The luffa operculata moved on, the first time I walked bled my beak, that hurt…. Actually the intention is right, “calejar” the beak so that he’s ready for the baby’s suction. But for this work he’d have to hurt and heal some dozens of times. And what crazy woman, even more sensitive with the pregnancy, will hold get hurt like that? Get some sun so I wonder who got topless and spend some time getting a Tan? After breast-feeding 2 daughters, I don’t think I feel pain and have no problem for breastfeeding is a sum of factors; as the way and force the baby sucks, your skin, sinus anatomy … anyway. It’s not worth worrying about with such lunch! In my case, with the two who were born with 4kgs, practically a 2 months baby, I could have used luffa operculata, taken Sun, nothing would work. The force that a big baby and hungry sucking is proportional to your size!
-That girl is always attached to the father.
Try to be with your husband and tell someone who expects a child. It seems that look straight to the father and say; Oh, how nice, girls are super attached to the father! As if it were a comfort to his father that in theory, would like to have a boy. I witnessed this situation, especially when I was expecting my second child. I think it’s funny that a girl be attached to the father and boy mom, I don’t know who invented this theory. In my opinion there is only one word for this; affinity. No matter the sex. Don’t you think?
-That in maternity what else the guests say is: Oh what a little angel . While they are here are a peace, lets get home…
In a way it’s still a real placement there is a plausible explanation, which is that after 2-3 days, the child’s food reservation ends, and the mother’s milk many times yet. But no recent mom, after all the radical changes with the arrival of a baby, or have a terrible fear of going home with a little monster that won’t stop crying?! Here at home to Bruna really had a fit of crying in the first night at home. But Manu never cried. Once again I say, one day after another. Every baby is a.
-If you make 1 year party for the child will say; 1 year party the child does not enjoy anything, just parents.
Yes, virtually all the parents take advantage of same. But what’s the harm in parents invite friends to celebrate a date so important? Every one knows what is important and a priority. I didn’t do a party with that age to either of them. But if financial availability, I’d have a bash for each each anniversary!
–Whenever the baby cries near third parties, will give two cents!
Ah, must be hungry! Is there anything more annoying than hearing from others that the baby’s hungry and you know what time nursed and when do it again? “You saw him if he pooped?” “Oh, this outfit should be bothering you?” “Is it colic?” These questions are “super” providential on stage that you’re exhausted, insecure and unreceptive to London. Looks like you’re not a good mother and can’t identify the sleep of your son.
-The sling is the top product of stimulating questions.
Will the baby’s okay, our I think his leg is bent … There’s no risk of falling, it doesn’t hurt your back? I have never used sling, but see for close friends who use or even for bloggers who post pictures using the amount of questions about it. I just want to say; If it wasn’t safe, to get hurt, if the baby wouldn’t be comfortable, why a mother would use? OOOIIII! The sling is one of the oldest and most effective methods and by the way, a lot cheaper than a kangaroo, to keep the child warm mother, and allows the mother to stay with your hands free and carry your baby anywhere.
-Who will offer you a pediatrician homeopath
Just a few minutes in a conversation between mothers who so you mention that your son was sick, whatever the disease, which always comes someone and question why you haven’t led to a homeopath. Have you noticed?
–Observe your child over 3 years with pacifier in mouth will look at you with the face of disapproval.
And they’re still talking about the consequences of the pacifier and everything negative that surrounds this issue. I doubt that any mother doesn’t know the evils of the pacifier and you have to take the child as soon as possible. But who criticizes many times you don’t know what’s behind this belated pacifier. I’m with a lot of difficulty in taking the pacifier of Bruna and know everything negative. And the more time passes, but hard to keep fact. But no child grows up sucking a pacifier is not?! The same goes for the fly, take the bottle, and anything that involves a change in the child’s life.
-The professional life of women after motherhood will always be questioned.
If you worked and decided to quit my job to stay with the child, will question whether you will not regret it. Already if you kept your job, stay out all day, and let your baby with a sitter or in a nursery the question is; Wow, you have courage, so tiny…? Poor women….
And you, what more would add to this list? Which two cents more unbearable you received or receive??
And soon another part of this post because I still have lots of London to tell!
And those who want to read the other posts in the series “what I learned”, click Here.
Kisses and good weekend to all!
* K *
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